the blind leading the blind

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These past couple of weeks, I've had many of my friends tell me that they need my advice, they need someone to talk to, that their boyfriends' suck.

I've realized some things from their experiences & my own:

1. clichés are clichés for a reason. because they're usually right & true. 
2. if you think you deserve better, you probably do.
3. no, your boyfriend shouldn't have naked photos of his ex somewhere in his room.
4. yes, your boyfriend should tell you he loves you daily
5. your boyfriend/girlfriend should push you towards your goals & make you want to work harder for them. they should support you.
6. you cannot fully love someone until you truly love yourself. how can another person accept your flaws if you can't either?
7. you can't have the good days without some bad ones (and the bad ones shouldn't outweigh the good).
8. a person's friends can say a lot about them
9. you don't/won't know until you try.
10. you friends will always have your back

Happy Valentine's Day

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Whether you're single, taken, in limbo, don't give a fuck, HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY! Everybody deserves to be loved, so feel the love today, my sweets.

I thought I would share some tunes for your Valentine's Day/to listen to whenever that you can hear over on Spotify! (If you don't have this yet, get it! It's free!)

Modern Romance

1. Hysteric (acoustic)- Yeah Yeah Yeahs

2. You're the One- The Black Keys

3. Sea of Love- Cat Power

4. Such Great Heights- Iron and Wine

5. Harvest Moon- Neil Young

6. Us- Regina Spektor

7. You Really Got a Hold On Me- She & Him

8. Two of Us- The Beatles

9. Janet- The Format

10. Do You Realize??- The Flaming Lips

11. Islands- The xx

12. Video Games- Lana Del Rey

13. Never Had Nobody Like You- M. Ward

14. Your the One I Want- Christ & Thomas

15. We Will Become Silhouettes- The Shins

16. Don't Worry Baby- The Beach Boys

17. Everlasting Light- The Black Keys

18. Home- Edward Sharpe & the Magnetic Zeroes

19. First Day of My Life- Bright Eyes 

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A love letter

Did you watch Grey's Anatomy last night? It was Valentine's Day at Seattle Grace Hospital, and I thought the sweetest story was between the two 10-year-olds. Young love is the sweetest. 

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Dear Clementine,


I'm really sorry you're sick, but I'm not sorry you're my girlfriend. It's the worst being alone on Valentine's day. But I'm thinking about you right now; I'm thinking about holding hands with you, and jumping on the trampoline together. I love you. 


And ps, I don't care who gave who lice, I'm just glad we both had it together.


Love, Nico

sometimes I really like what my horoscope has to say

compliments of iGoogle:
You know where you stand in the world today now that the Moon is in your 10th House of Public Responsibility. You have more confidence about what you're doing at work, but this doesn't mean you should hide any feelings of uncertainty. In fact, sharing your vulnerability now might open a doorway to a beautiful experience with someone very special. Don't let an opportunity get away from you; tell a friend or loved one how important he or she is to you when you have the chance.

Shout out to all my best girlfriends & family & boyfriend. You guys are amazing and keep me sane. I love you all so much, don't ever forget it!

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Like crazy

I miss you like crazy.

Why, yes, I do love crying all over myself in movie theaters, thank you for asking.